Do We Really Care About the Sacrifices our Service Men & Women Make?

My Marine son and his wife adopted a little boy from the Marshall Islands. They found out that they can't obtain a visa for Danny to even visit the U.S. for two years! Scott has served in the USMC for 20 years! We give illegals in this country housing, 100% medical, transportation, education, food stamps, and cash. What is wrong with this picture? Don't we care about our own, who sacrifice daily? There has to be something we can do to protect and honor our own, especially our servicemen and women.